Monday, December 7, 2009

Kiddo milestones, December version

Awaaaay we go.

Austin
Austin's got 2 adult teeth breaking the gum now. The left bottom (well, i guess that'd be right bottom for him...it's left bottom to me) incisor is about halfway up, and the right bottom incisor has just broken through in the past few days. Strangely, no baby teeth have fallen out! Though his left bottom one is really loose (not to mention badly displaced now...it's been pushed out and over so it's really crooked compared to before) and I could probably yank it out if I tried hard. No need to traumatize the poor boy, though, so I'll just let it do its own thing.

He is really into drawing now, loves to do it every day and seems to improve all the time. I continue to be amazed at how detailed his pictures are. He declared the other night that "I'm an artist". I had to suppress a chuckle. But I'm also irrationally worried now that I've been praising him too much about it and leading him to believe he's unusually talented. Hard to say. I like that he believes in himself but I don't want to give him a false sense of pride, y'know? And I really have no baseline to go by, since I don't really know what level of talent/detail a 5-year old should be drawing at. But to me it really does look like he's got an eye for art and detail. Has a great memory for it, too. So I continue to encourage him.

Austin's reading skills continue to improve. He can read whole sentences at times now, recognizes many words (I've lost count of how many), and can sound out many more. He's beginning to get concepts like silent "e" and digraphs (sh, ch, th) which increases his word recognition. And he can also write entire sentences from memory--often they're sentences they learned by rote in class, but sometimes he gets creative too. He's written sentences such as "We can go to your cat" and "you can look at the dog". I'm so impressed!

Jonas
Whoo. Jonas is still a force of nature. He has the terrible twos like nothing we've ever seen. He's stubborn, headstrong, and has a hair-trigger temper. He doesn't understand the relationship betweeen bad behavior and punishment yet, either, so disciplining him is incredibly difficult (and not particularly effective). But when he's in a good mood he's just as joyful and happy as any child I've ever seen. He's going to be the source of many sleepless nights when he's a teen, I suspect. :) Of course, he's the source of many sleepless nights as a 2-year old--still. We continue to have issues with him getting up too early, as well as getting to bed on time. Last Friday night/Saturday morning, for instance, he went to bed around 7:45 but was awake at 1am, 1:30, 2am, 2:45, and 3:30. Wasn't crying or upset, just coming to our door and repeating "mama! mama!" until someone got up and rocked him back to sleep. At 3:30, after Amy unsuccessfully tried to get him to sleep in the bed between us, I finally gave up and took him to the couch to sleep next to me. He (and I) both slept fitfully, though he did finally stay asleep...until 5:40, that is, when he was up for good. I was probably awake 80% of the time between 1am and 6:30 that morning. Not fun at all.

To help counter the sleep problems, we're weaning Jonas off naps for good. It's been kind of a rough transition, especially at night when he gets so grumpy...but he doesn't fight us about bedtime anymore, and he does sleep through the night more. And though he still gets up on or before 6am most mornings, it's a lot closer to 6am than it used to be.


Devon
Devon is crawling like a champ now. He picks up speed every day, and has learned that he can follow us from room to room--so we have to be careful/mindful of his location at all times. Of course with crawling comes the inevitable "pick up everything on the floor and put it in my mouth phase" so we're constantly fishing stuff out of his mouth...hard to keep the floor clean with 2 other younguns running around constantly with play-doh, chips, toys, etc.

In addition to crawling, he wants to stand up and walk so bad. He is pulling up on everything/everyone, all the time. Yesterday I noticed he was standing fully erect now too, and putting more weight on his feet and less on his arms. I've even seen him let go several times. Of course he doesn't quite have the balance, and has landed on his butt a lot; but he's very eager to figure out how to center his weight above himself. And he's getting it much more rapidly than I was expecting. Of course, Austin was taking steps by his 1st birthday (Jonas was a few months later), so I guess Devon's also on course to be taking steps by March if not before.

UPDATE: Devon stood up by himself yesterday! He was pulling up on my leg, then all of a sudden got a concentrated/inspired look on his face and just...pushed up and off. He stood free for a 3-count before losing his balance! Go Devon!

Devon's also started making complex facial expressions, which is just to-die-for cute. He has this one face where he wrinkles up his nose and smiles/snorts...it's only a momentary look so we haven't caught it on camera yet, but it's adorable to the point of overload.

He's very interested in sounds now...he'll stare at your mouth for as long as you're making sounds he wants to imitate (ma-ma, ba-ba, da-da, clicks, etc). Sometimes he'll try to copy, but not very often. His favorite sound is, well, impossible to describe in English but it's roughly "ghhhhhhheee!" (think of a sound roughly halfway between Ernie's laugh and Roscoe P. Coltrane). It's his primary sound of communication and he makes it all the time (especially to express happiness)--to us, to himself, and to the cat! His other major sound is growling, which is absolutely hilarious. And he gets tickled when we growl back too. He growls most often when he's eating or around food, which I haven't quite figured out yet.

Still no upper teeth, though I can kind of see his gums swelling out so I suspect it won't be long now before we start seeing white pressure spots appear.

OH - I should mention that the constant spitting up is no more! He hardly ever throws up now. There are days when we still have exceptions, but by and large he is barf-free. He also loves to try new foods now and will eat anything you put in front of him....bananas, meatballs, pasta, etc. We give him whatever he can mash up with his gums (he's only got 2 teeth, after all) and/or isn't overly processed.

Overall Devon's a great baby and is in his super-sweet, super-adorable phase. He's a lot of fun and gets along great with both big brothers now (and vice-versa).

That's all for now!

Tuesday, December 1, 2009

November 2009 photos are up! Featuring our trip to the fair, Devon crawling and pulling up on stuff, the kids being generally cute/wacky, and our first Thanksgiving at home. Enjoy!

Monday, November 16, 2009

Kids update, November

OK, i figured as long as I'm here, I may as well post some progress updates. Will try to keep this short, though, cause my brain is pretty foggy this morning.

Austin
Austin's flourishing in school. As mentioned last month, his creativity is just exploding. He loves to color and is really good at making pictures of just about anything. He has a talent for translating images from his mind to paper. He's also really into reading and writing now; he learns new words every day, and has developed the skills to begin figuring out words by sounding them out. He can pick out several words instantaneously now. I love it. LOVE IT.

Austin got what we think was a sinus infection 2 weekends ago which was making him miserable. He spiked nighttime fevers for several nights, but would feel fine during the day; this continued until last Monday when he got a really bad headache and slight fever at school. I signed him out and took him to the doctor. They gave a flu/H1N1 test at my request, and that came back negative; so it looks like a sinus infection was the culprit. He's on antibiotics and they seem to have done the trick.

Austin's got 2 loose teeth on the bottom (1 about halfway loose, the other somewhat less so) and an adult tooth growing in behind them. I'm hoping the loose teeth are ready to come out soon, I'm very excited!

Jonas
Jonas is Jonas...still a one-man wrecking crew. :) He seems to be calming down a little bit recently, though. He talks more and more clearly every day and picks up lots of words. He can make coherent sentences, sometimes 6 to 10 words long; and can even have fairly extended conversations. He gets complex ideas as well, which is nice.

2 weekends ago Jonas moved from a crib to a toddler bed and is doing very well in it. He still gets up out of it sometimes, but no more often than he did with the crib. I think he's getting used to putting himself to sleep again, though it's hard to tell for sure--usually we have to sneak him into the bed already asleep, but sometimes he'll be awake and will lie there till he falls asleep. Other times, not so much. But i'm working to break him of the habit of getting out of bed repeatedly until Mom and Dad's nerves are shot.

Jonas developed a fever last night, a pretty significant one; it woke him up several times in the middle of the night, but oddly he doesn't act sick. More tired and quiet than usual, maybe, but he's still in a good mood. The only other symptom he displays is hoarseness, i.e. sinus drainage, so we're wondering if he doesn't have sinusitis too. If the fever doesn't break by tomorrow I guess we'll be taking him to the doctor too.

Devon
Devon's doing great. He also has been sick recently; on Halloween he was positively miserable, crying and whining and being generally pathetic all day. Thankfully that was over quickly. He hasn't sported a fever in a while but continues to be congested and snotty, so we think he's got a cold. Other than lots of snot, though, it doesn't seem to bother him.

Devon can now sit himself up--i guess he's been doing this for a couple of weeks--and crawls functionally. It's not a perfect crawl and he can't sustain it very long, but it's more than the army arm-crawl he was exhibiting until recently. It's certainly enough to make him mobile (see the most recent video as an example). He hasn't quite figured out how to keep his knees under him all the time, though, so sometimes he'll get his feet under him and push up until he's in a full bear-walk stance. I haven't seen him try to move in this position yet, and he probably can't, but it's pretty funny to see him do it. And impressive that he can balance himself that way for several seconds. I wonder how long before it'll be before he's pulling up.

Let's see, what else. Oh, he babbles a lot more now, and it sounds like he's trying to talk. I tried to capture this on video (including one that I haven't gotten uploaded yet--hopefully tonight). It's extremely cute. He still has 2 teeth, both lower teeth; we thought for a while he was cutting upper teeth, but I think that was a false alarm.

I think that's it for this edition. More next month...

Videos!

I finally got around to publishing home videos. There are about a dozen (give or take) on YouTube now, starting here: http://www.youtube.com/grover173#p/u . They go from July through last weekend. Most of them are pretty boring and don't show much, but every once in a while there's some entertaining moments. The longest and most recent video (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=M7mFBajd7Dw) is about 7 minutes long...it's a pretty decent watch.

Videos are a huge pain in the behind to upload, I've found out (that 7-minute one took upwards of an hour to upload), so as I record them I'll try to put them up one by one. We don't pull out the video camera very much but maybe we'll try to change that, especially with the holidays coming up.

Enjoy...

Saturday, November 14, 2009

October 2009 photos up!

I know it's 2 weeks late, but it's been a crazy month. Anyway, family photos from October 2009 are up and ready on the photobucket site. The album includes candid shots, going to the pumpkin patch, a trip to Cypress Gardens in Moncks Corner to visit the butterfly house, and of course Halloween. Enjoy!

Also, I meant to put up several short video clips tonight, spanning several months' worth of time; but it took me almost 2 hours to get the stupid photographs downloaded, processed, uploaded (this was especially painful, thanks to the piece of s*** that is photobucket), commented, and tagged. It's currently 11:20pm and I'm writing this in the dark as Amy attempts to sleep behind me. So maybe later this month video clips will go up, but not tonight.

Hope everyone is having a good weekend.

Thursday, October 15, 2009

October update

AUSTIN
Austin's creativity has fairly exploded recently. I can't quite put my finger on why, but I really think kindergarten has a lot to do with it. He does art every day (or nearly so), practices his letters every day, and has some sort of "special" activity (music, art, P.E.) every day. His brain is just bursting with creativity. In just the last few weeks he's begun to draw at home almost every day. Detailed, complex drawings too, like cats and trees and clouds and people. There is amazing attention to detail. He also loves to build things whether with blocks, tinkertoys, legos, or what have you. He can look at a schematic and build it. (He still needs help with lego instructions, but is improving.) His imagination is incredible, and he thinks in 3-D. This is something I've always had trouble with, which is ironic because lefties are supposed to be spatially-oriented. I am, and very much so, in my head; but I can't usually translate it to a physical object. Austin can, though (and he's a leftie too). My youngest brother Travis (also a leftie) has this gift too, it's something I've always envied. When I play with legos or tinkertoys, everything I build from scratch comes out very flat and two-dimensional.

Austin is also learning to recognize and write sight words. He wrote "like", "my", and "the" last night with absolutely no prompting or assistance from anyone...shocked the heck out of me. He's also getting better at sounding out words.

Truly, Austin is blossoming. It is so rewarding to watch it happen. This really is what I've been waiting for, this awakening of his mind and talents. It fills me with immense joy. Kindergarten is really helping to move him forward and I am so thankful. I think he's going to be a really good student.

Austin also has his first loose tooth and the adult tooth coming in behind it. Should only be a few weeks before it really starts to get wiggly. Exciting!


JONAS
Jonas....*sigh* Jonas is brilliant, but he uses his intelligence for evil. :) He is full of life and energy. His spirit burns brightly, I like to say. But he's also full on into the Terrible Twos and boy, are they terrible. He has quite a temper and a hair trigger on it. He will scream for an hour if he doesn't get his way. He has learned how to defeat much of the childproofing in the house--only the locks that are physically too strong for him to unlock are still working. He knows how to reach things in high places (he moves a chair) so nothing is safe. He resists punishment and doesn't really understand it yet, so timeouts and other diversionary discipline are largely ineffective. He doesn't like to eat dinner most days, so if it's something he doesn't immediately recognize/like he will pick at it at best, maybe eating 2 bites if we're lucky. Going to restaurants with him is pure misery...he wants to stand up, play under the table, wander, scream, switch seats, etc. Oh, it's awful. We don't go out nearly as much as we used to.

He still gets up around 5:30 to 6:00 every morning, and now he doesn't even come to get one of us. The other morning Amy found him awake at 5:45, chair pulled up to the counter in front of the coffeemaker, calmly mixing together coffee grinds and sugar from the sugar bowl. With the biggest smile on his face.

And he's Mr. Destructo. He will knock over, color, step on, vandalize, shred, bite, or rip apart anything in his path. Ripping up books seems to be a favorite lately, as does coloring over pictures Austin's already drawn (Cory used to do this to me--drove me crazy).

And (yes, there's more) he likes to hit, and occasionally he'll bite. He hits Austin for the tiniest perceived infratction...he'll also try to hit Amy and me. He'll hurt Devon if you give him half a chance. I don't think he's intentionally trying to hurt the baby--he just plays really, really rough. But we can't convince him what he's doing is harmful. Yesterday he slammed the door while Devon was bouncing from a bouncy seat hanging in the opening, and almost smashed Devon's face.

Jonas knows how to push our limits and push our buttons, and does so with reckless abandon. He is learning independence and his place in the family, though, so we try not to lose it with him. There are times, though, when I want to smack the everloving mess out of him.

Despite all that, he is still such a sweet boy. He's very outgoing, loves to flirt, loves to play games. He has a great sense of humor and loves to cuddle. His emotions are turbocharged, basically....like I said, his spirit burns brightly. I'm just hoping once he starts to talk more that he starts to *understand* more too, and all this misbehavior starts to mellow.


DEVON
Devon's still pretty immobile...but not for long. The floor is one of his favorite places to be. He can roll himself pretty much anywhere, and is starting to figure out he can propel himself forward. It's not quite crawling, more like a one-shot lunge. But he's getting the mechanics down. He gets up on all fours and rocks quite frequently. He's also sitting up more and more...sometimes he'll go a couple minutes. He grabs at *everything* and is insatiably curious. He's starting to make babbly noises and is very interested in watching your mouth when you make sounds at him.

Devon has one tooth already through the gum (lower right) and another one is just days, if not less, from rupturing too. It makes him a little bit miserable sometimes, but overall he's dealing exceptionally well with teething. He might even be a better teether than Austin...I didn't even know his first tooth was coming through, he was so nonchalant about it.

He still spits up a lot, but it's just something we have to deal with. It doesn't seem to bother him (just us, because he always seems to miss the burp cloth...and it smells terrible). He is eating "people food" more now and likes it a lot, especially fruits.

He still sleeps great--normally goes down between 5 and 6:30, sleeps till Amy wakes him up the next morning (or 7:30, whichever comes first). Almost never wakes up at night and when he does, usually some pats on the back is all he needs. Usually takes one nap a day, sometimes for an hour, sometimes for three.

Overall Devon is a VERY happy baby and is almost always in a good mood. He loves both his brothers tremendously, especially Austin. He likes Jonas better and better each day, especially when Jonas lies down next to him, and puts up with Jonas's wrestling with great patience. Usually he just waits patiently for Mommy or Daddy to rescue him. :) Austin can make him laugh at any time, and Jonas is getting better at it.


I think that's it for this time! The kids are excited about Halloween coming up...will be sure to post pictures. Hope everyone's having a great October.

Thursday, October 1, 2009

September 2009 photos up

New photos for September 2009 are up! Strangely, Austin's in hardly any of them. Part of that's because he takes some of the photos, and part of it is because he won't pose anymore - he's always got to make obnoxious faces or move around so much that none of the photos come out well. It's annoying, but hopefully it'll pass. Anyway...some favorites:







Friday, September 4, 2009

September kids update

What's been happening recently...

AUSTIN
Austin's struggled with behavior issues in the past couple weeks, pushing both Amy and me past our limits more than a few times. He uses a variety of tactics...ignoring, arguing, defiance, sneakiness, even intimidation. He has this "mean face" that he puts on and gets right up on us like he's trying to bully us into changing our minds. It's gotten to the point that we immediately put him in time-out anytime he gives us the mean face.

I'm not saying he's always bad, he just acts out more than I'd normally expect--especially when Jonas is in the room. He's constantly testing and pushing buttons.

However, it seems like he's been improving slowly over the last week. And he's been on best behavior the past couple days, not least because of our impending football weekend. I think his kindergarten teacher's discipline methods are helping him too (especially when I try to mimic them). He's so much more pleasant when he's behaving. It's amazing to see how creative, loving, affectionate, and funny he can be when we're not constantly struggling with him to control his behavior and temperament. He's taken to randomly hugging me and saying things like "I love you, Dad", "you're the best dad", and last night he broke out "you're wonderful". It's so sweet.

In the last 2-3 days he's even started being markedly nicer to Jonas, which is eye-popping in its contrast to the usual dynamic there. There've been times when Jonas has pinched, grabbed, or hit Austin with little or no provocation, and Austin's just looked at me and said "I didn't hit back and I still love him even when he's mean." *boggle* WHO IS THIS ALIEN AND WHAT HAS HE DONE WITH AUSTIN?!!

I'm leaving in about half an hour to pick up Austin from school and take him to Clemson for the weekend. He is so excited he can barely stand it. I am too! But I'm excited about football...he's more excited about "special time with daddy", eating in restaurants, and staying in the hotel. But hey, whatever works. :)

JONAS
Jonas is talking more and more these days--he has a rapidly growing vocabulary and is putting together fairly sophisticated sentences too. He's still pretty hard to understand unless you're used to him, and even then it's not easy, but he seems to improve daily.

He is OBSESSED with books. If he can get away with it, he'll make us read him 10 books before bedtime...some nights we literally have to pick him up and carry him away from the bookshelf to go to bed. He's even starting to memorize some of the books because he's read them so many times. It's pretty awesome. He watches TV, but not a whole lot of it--he'll watch Blue's Clues till the sun goes down, and likes Phineas and Ferb because Austin watches that one a lot. But other than that, he doesn't really pay a whole lot of attention to TV (as far as i can tell, anyway).

He's got all his colors down pretty well now. It's funny to hear him say them...."duh-wed" ("red", actually we think it's "the red"), "bwoo" or "duh-woo", "wee-whoa", "geen" or "duh-geen", "or-nange" (this is cute enough to melt steel), "buh-wack", "duh-wyee" ("the white"), "duh-peenk", "purple" (oddly, he says this one almost perfectly). Guess what his favorite color is? ORNANGE! I'm raising him right. :)

Much like Austin, Jonas has distinct and developing musical tastes. He tends to like high-energy music like dance, electronica, and old-school hip-hop (while Austin prefers electronica, heavy metal, and speed metal). He loves to ride in my car because it's a "special occasion", and we always listen to energetic music. He laughs and bobs his head and "dances" in the car seat.

Jonas still an incredibly sweet boy with an incredibly big mischevious streak. I really love being around him when he's not driving me crazy getting into trouble. :) He is a specialist at getting into trouble, though. He'll grab anything that he can reach, even if he knows he's not supposed to. He knows how to use chairs and toys to climb on and reach higher spots. He can be a real terror at the table, pushing the table and his chair around, tipping backwards, etc. He really loves to step on and/or destroy things Austin has built (lego buildings and cars, forts, etc). And lately he's developed an interest in the computer too, which leads to fights over whose turn it is to be in the computer chair.

On the sweet side, though, he always comes sprinting to the door when I come home, laughing and shrieking "DADDY!". He likes to sit on my lap and watch TV or read. He can sit still for much longer than Austin can, so it's nice to chill with him on the couch. He loves to share with everyone in the house--his new thing is to say "here!" and share whatever's in his hand. He's really good about going down to bed, FAR better than Austin ever was--it almost never takes more than 15 minutes to get him down for a nap or for nighttime. He has a great sense of humor and sometimes he flat-out cracks me up, especially when I'm singing lullabyes or holding him. He loves being a comedian. He is also getting much better with Devon, backing off on the intentional startling and the random smacking. We still can't leave them alone in the same room because Jonas will still try something every now and again, but at least now we don't have to be right next to the baby every second.

DEVON
Devon's been off Zantac for the past several days and seems to be responding well. He's started to eat oatmeal and pureed fruit. He really loves applesauce. We think he might have an allergy to rice cereal, as he developed a really nasty rash a few weekends ago that we couldn't get rid of. When he stopped with the rice at his doctor's suggestion, though, it was gone within a day. Weird.

He's also holding his head up very well and turning over with ease. He loves to be on the floor. He's figured out how to push himself military-crawl style across the floor in small intervals, so he's becoming somewhat mobile--at the very least, he can turn himself in a circle to see everything around him. He's constantly trying to get his knees underneath him so he can start crawling (and keeping up with his brothers). We introduced him to an exersaucer a couple weeks ago and he seems to like that pretty well...won't stay in it for a long time, but often will go long enough for us to eat dinner.

Devon's personality is also very sweet, he loves to laugh with Daddy and Mommy and his brothers. He doesn't seem to mind strangers too much and is usually in a good mood when he wakes up--even when Amy has to get him up at 6:15am to get Austin to school in time. He's starting to "watch" TV and will sometimes even pay attention when we're reading books. He's really good about going down to bed; by 6:30 or 7 he's ready for his final nursing of the night and then he'll typically stay asleep until the next morning, sometimes sleeping till 8 or 8:30. Hardly ever wakes up in the middle of the night anymore; if anything, he'll wake up around 9-10pm because of gas bubbles, but he doesn't like being awake that late. Sometimes if he's up past 7, Amy will put him down in the crib (so she can take care of some errands) and eventually he'll put himself to sleep. That's something neither Austin or Jonas would ever do as a baby, so it's REALLY nice (almost heavenly) that Devon will do it once in a while.

And lastly he still likes Austin more than anybody except maybe Mommy, but is warming up rapidly to Jonas too. Jonas isn't as mean to him as he used to be, which helps, so often I'll catch Devon grinning and giggling at Jonas like he's never done before. It's really heartwarming to see them interacting better.

I think that's it! "See" you in about a month.

Tuesday, September 1, 2009

New photos for August; Austin's first day of kindergarten

New photos are up!
August 2009 - includes photos of Austin wearing his new glasses
Austin's First day of Kindergarten

Here's some of the 1st day of school photos:






This is what I wrote somewhere else about his first day of school:
First day of kindergarten went relatively smoothly. I helped with the morning yesterday, but other than Amy's alarm clock not going off it went off without any hitches. Austin was so excited that he was pretty cooperative, and Jonas and Devon both are already used to going out the door every morning--just not quite so early. While we were driving out of the neighborhood we noticed the bus makes a stop at the end of our street, and a TON of kids get on there every day, so we started thinking maybe we'd put him on the bus after all. We got to the school without a problem, got him to class fine. We actually had to chase him down to say bye, so separation anxiety was (as expected) not a problem. :) We stayed a bit longer for a PTA-sponsored breakfast then headed home.

The afternoon was a bit rougher--Amy said she sat in the car pickup line for almost an hour, which is pretty ridiculous even given it was the first day. That was exacerbated by Devon's screaming (he hates stopped cars) and both kids needed diaper changes. Then when Austin got in the car he whined all the way home that he was starving because he had only gotten salad for lunch. What?! For about 4 hours we both thought he'd only been *given* a salad for lunch so we were both pretty concerned, but slowly we teased the bigger story out of Austin and it turns out he got a full lunch, but only had time to eat the salad. They only get 20 minutes for lunch and he's a notoriously dawdling eater, so I think the end of lunch caught him by surprise (despite me warning him several times that that would happen). He got several reminders between last night and this morning to eat first, then play.

Austin being in preschool last year has helped in countless ways, even so much as to make it a routine for Jonas to head out the door every morning. All 3 kids seem to be adjusting to the earlier time pretty well--it's not too much earlier as far as waking up, but they have to hustle more to get out the door.

All in all we're happy with the way everything is turning out; there have been no major hang-ups or irritations (other than the hour-long sit in the car rider lane). I feel better about the school now that I've been there a few times and have talked to some other people around town about its quality, too. The worst part for me is that I have to get up at 4:40am now to avoid interfering with Amy's new morning routine. Ugh! But it gets me to work by 6am if not before, which means I can leave before 3pm and have half the afternoon to be at home, run errands, etc. It's not too bad.

That was 2 weeks ago on August 17 or 18. Since then, a lot has happened:

+ Austin went through about 2 weeks of difficult transition. He was crying every morning in class, saying he missed us, telling us he didn't like school, crying at night about going back, etc. I think it was due to a couple things: longer days, a tighter schedule (especially IRT lunch), the bus not being as cool as he originally thought, and so many new faces. A couple days ago he stopped the daily crying and went so far this weekend as to say he was excited about school. Hopefully that'll stick.

+ He also decided that he didn't care for the bus. Despite the bus driver's graciousness and flexibility with routes--she was willing to pick him up and drop him off in our cul-de-sac, if not literally at our driveway--he just couldn't get used to the loud noise, the windows being down all the time, and the bigger kids. He also didn't like not having a seatbelt, as his feet didn't touch the floor so he slid around a lot. That made it seem like the bus was "going too fast" and it really bothered him. After a few more trial days, we went back to car riding. We might try the bus again later this semester or year, but for now we're sticking with the car (as much of a PITA that is for Amy).

+ I went and visited his school last Friday to eat lunch with Austin, to observe, and to talk to the teacher a little bit. I got to do way more than that--she put me to work! I got to read to the class and run a learning center, then had about 15 minutes to talk one-on-one with the teacher during recess. I'm very happy I went--I feel really good about his teacher, how she operates, how she runs the class, and so forth. I also got to see Austin "in action" and was happy to see that he's a good, quiet student who pays attention almost all the time. He isn't particularly outgoing, but has made some friends and plays well at recess either alone or in groups. He keeps telling us he doesn't remember anyone's name but since I've been to his class, I can help him remember. I hope to go back once a month or so, or perhaps alternate visits with Amy. Austin LOVED having me at lunch so I'd like to do that again; I also tremendously enjoyed being in the classroom helping out, and the teacher was eager to have me help as often as I could.

+ His class is 26 kids--not ideal, but less than the 28-30 we were told to expect. There were 2 kids absent the day I went but when I was there, it was 10 boys and 14 girls. The class was about 1/3 minority children.

I think that's all I have to say!

Tuesday, August 4, 2009

non-photo kid update

Was writing an e-mail today about all the kids and it sounded more and more like a blog post, so I figured I'd mirror the content here. Enjoy.

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Devon has found his voice in the last 10-14 days and likes to "talk" ("aahs" and "ohhs" and "oohs") with impressive volume, but even more he likes to squeak. He sounds like a creaky door that's constantly opening and closing. We originally thought he was trying to convey displeasure, but it turns out that most of the time he's just squeaking. It's not particularly cute or endearing, but at least he's getting verbal (and it's much less annoying once we figured out he wasn't fussing). I'm starting to wonder if he's teething, as he's a bit crankier than usual; but we haven't seen any evidence of that yet. He still sleeps through the night, at least, except for last night when he was up at midnight. First time that's happened in at least a month, though.

Jonas has 2 molars coming in, continuing his miserable tradition of having multiple teeth appear simultaneously. He doesn't seem to be having *too* much trouble with them, but it might be making him crankier, I dunno. He has more of a hair trigger these days but it's hard to tell if it's teeth or just the fact that he's 2. He's definitely full-swing into the terrible 2's, that's for sure. He's still climbing out of the crib, which began a couple weeks ago--we just leave the drop rail down, as he's figured out how to climb out that way w/o hurting himself.

We had a disastrous experiment Saturday removing the drop rail--he thought it gave him free license to just up and get out of bed whenever he felt like it. So his nap was half as long as usual, getting him to bed was a nightmare (never stayed in bed more than 5 seconds, kept coming out into the living room, then bolting as soon as I spotted him...a fun little "game" that almost got his neck wrung), and Sunday morning he woke up at 5am and never went back to sleep. So the rail went back on that day. It's a nice psychological deterrent, if anything. Jonas also got into the Mother's Morning Out program so every Thursday, he'll be spending 3 hours with kids his age. I think he'll like that a lot, though we're a bit concerned how he'll do the first few times. The last time he was in a room without parents he only lasted about an hour before getting upset, but he was also the only 2-year old in the room. We'll see how he does with a roomful of peers and directed activities. It'll be a nice morning off for Amy, as once school kicks in she'll be down to just 1 kid once a week.

Austin had his kindergarten placement test yesterday and impressed the test-giver; he got 62 out of a possible 64 points on a test that's designed to measure what kids should know by the *end* of kindergarten. He recognized a couple "sight words", which I didn't know he could do, and even tried to write a couple of words (no success there...he got as far as "C" for "cat" but that's it). Pre-K was worth every penny! So he should get pretty good placement; in addition to class sorting they have reading groups sorted according to ability, and kids will move up or down if they improve at different rates (I think). So that's cool.

We were also told that class size should be about 24 students, which is awesome. At pre-registration they told me 28 students, so 24 is a great improvement. I'm most worried that since he's so well prepared, he'll get bored and into trouble! Hopefully the teacher's prepared for that, though. I'm looking forward to meeting his teacher and developing a good relationship to make sure Austin's consistently engaged and challenged. I'm next-most worried about the long days--7:25 to 2:30 or something like that. Wow. Amy and I are both going to have to get up at least half an hour earlier, I think...considering I already get up at 5:15 or so this will not be fun.

Thursday, July 23, 2009

New pics

New pics up in 2009 folder:
+ June 2009 [just 4 new pics here]
+ Austin's 5th birthday
+ July 2009

Tuesday, July 14, 2009

Also, recent photos up!

I forgot to mention yesterday that photos through June 2009 have been uploaded and include Austin's 4K "May Day", 4K graduation, and birthday; Jonas's birthday; and Devon's entrance into the world and his first few months. Enjoy!

Monday, July 13, 2009

PHOTO LOCATIONS CHANGING

As of today, I've reorganized the photo album structure for our family. Instead of splitting albums into Austin, Jonas, Devon, and [other] I've simply gone to a chronologically-based system. All 3 kids, as well as other family members/events/pets/etc. will be in one album: Our Family. From there sub-albums will be broken down by year, month, and the occasional special event (birthdays, holidays, trips, etc).

I think this will make it a lot easier for me to put up photos, and a lot more organic/intuitive for everyone to browse through. So hopefully that means more frequent updates.

I'm leaving up the existing Austin/Jonas/Devon structure for another few days but it won't be up long, so if you have bookmarks be warned that they'll all be broken pretty soon.

Tuesday, June 9, 2009

Here are links to the boys' photo sites.NOTE: Almost all photos in the album have been resized to non-ridiculous sizes; this will make them sub-optimal for printing. If you want original large (i.e. high pixel count) images to download for printing, wallpaper, etc, please contact me.

I'm thinking about re-organizing the photos to go solely by month/year, not subdivided by kids. As I've discovered the hard way with Austin and Jonas, whenever there's a photograph that has both of them in it, I have to duplicate the photo in each kid's folder. That's a huge pain. And what do I do with photos of just me, just Amy, the cat, etc? So in the future I may just wipe it all out, create an album called "Family", and run with it. It's a huge project, though, so finding time may be a challenge.

Next challenge: figure out how to perma-stick this post to the front page. I don't think it's possible, actually, so I may have to find another place to put these links. [Update: aha. I put them in my profile, which shows up on the right side of the page. Awesome.]
This is a new blog. Geocities is shutting down soon, so I need a place to put links to kids' photos; I might use the blog for other stuff at some point, but right now I just need a good launch point.

Ryan